![]() You tell them right then and there or the day of," Clayton shared. they need to know you're in love with them before you get engaged. "When am I going to tell them? Am I just going to wait until the final week before an engagement and tell someone right there, 'Hey, I'm in love with you?' I think. We're not gonna work out, so now I need to focus on these other two relationships and who I feel most compatible with.'"Ĭlayton said if he would've withheld those emotions, which he initially did during hometown dates, he feared the women would question their relationships or maybe even shut down on him with doubts and insecurities. "I had to let it make sense because, again, if Susie and I didn't have any physical intimacy, no compatibility, then I'd say, 'Okay, well that's no longer. It does not make sense, but I made it make sense in that moment."īut Clayton said he "made it make sense" while filming the show's 26th season. "In what sense would you move forward and get engaged to somebody three days later if you're saying, 'Hey, I'm in love with you but I'm also in love with other women?' It doesn't make sense and now I see it. I mean, just look at it from the standpoint of I told a woman that I love that I'm 'the most' in love with you, implying I was in love with other women," Clayton explained. "I didn't think it was a good idea because you don't want to tell multiple women that you're in love with them. RELATED LINK: 'THE BACHELORETTE' COUPLES NOW: WHOM DID 'THE BACHELORETTE' STARS AND THEIR BACHELOR PICKS ULTIMATELY END UP WITH?! (PHOTOS) I'm assuming they understand I might fall in love with multiple women.'"īut Ben, who starred on The Bachelor's 20th season and told two women that he loved them, asked Clayton why he thought it was a good idea to intentionally profess his love to all three women in the Fantasy Suites, knowing the choice would have major repercussions down the line. "Because of that, I started to adapt to the environment and I started to say, 'Well, okay, I'm assuming that these women understand how Fantasy Suites go. "It's not real-world applicable," he noted. You could never do that in the real world, it's not feasible," Clayton told Ben and Ashley.Ĭlayton therefore admitted how he came to the conclusion things just "work differently" on The Bachelor and so he thought he had "a little bit of leeway" when it came to being affectionate or intimate with more than one woman. ![]() "I stepped in as the Bachelor and said, 'Okay, I'm going to date 30 women and this will be acceptable'. You want to pour into that person 100 percent.'"Ĭlayton said he fully embraced The Bachelor process and "essentially believed in. ", 'If you want to give this a fair shot, then when you're with this woman, you're only with her and there are no other women. Click here to visit our Google News page, and then click FOLLOW to add us as a news source! ![]() Reality TV World is now available on the all-new Google News app and website. "When I was just, that's all I saw, because I thought that was the right way to approach it," he said. RELATED LINK: 'THE BACHELOR' FRANCHISE COUPLES NOW: WHO IS STILL TOGETHER? (PHOTOS)Ĭlayton also explained how he tried to compartmentalize each relationship and be in the moment with each woman. If I'm going to get engaged, that has to be there." Maybe that's not how everybody else is, but for me, that's so critical. "I would have now been potentially interested and more in love with one of the other two women because physical intimacy is such a critical part of a relationship."Ĭlayton confessed, "I cannot get engaged to somebody if there's no sexual chemistry. And if wouldn't have happened and went into Fantasy Suites and we were intimate and we had no compatibility sexually, then that would have shifted ," Clayton revealed. ", 'We may not have any physical intimacy. Clayton attempted to explain his choices to Ashley Iaconetti and Ben Higgins during a March 9 appearance on their "The Ben & Ashley I: Almost Famous Podcast."įor starters, Clayton said he thought going into Fantasy Suites that "dealbreakers can come up" which could ultimately change his mind about his frontrunner.
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